“That’s a whole lot of whining.”
No, it’s a whole lot of good points. Put yourself in the boy’s shoes if you are capable of empathy.
Look at what I’m saying, the guy is doing everything. That is not good even for the date. It creates a situation where the girl is passive and passive people tend to be judgmental. They have nothing to do but judge. People need to be busy. Haimish dating leaves the girl with nothing to do but expect.
It’s amazing how everybody acknowledges the shidduch crisis but yet most are resistent to any changes in our methods, even though we picked up half of them from the goyim.