Reply To: What makes a good father-in-law?

” A father-in-law should keep his mouth shut, and his wallet open.”
Presumably, that goes as well for mother-in-law.

Nice, but no. We’re already had a frank chat with them about finances. My daughter and future SIL both know that we are not in a position to pay their bills. We’re not paying their rent, or their car insurance, or even cell phones. We told them we will help out where and when we can, but they should not rely on us for monthly stipends.