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January 15, 2018 1:44 pm at 1:44 pm
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WinnieThePooh
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I don’t think friends would lie and say that a girl is quiet and reserved when she was not, since being overly quiet/shy can be a problem when it comes to dating. Perhaps it depends on the setting- among her group of outgoing friends, she is quiet, but on a one-on-one basis, she is more confident and outgoing and showing a side of her personality that her friends do not normally see. Her friends can only describe her as they know her. That’s why there is dating, to see for oneself what the person is like and if personalities mesh.