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Joseph; he was told by her friends that she is a quiet and reserved girl. She was completely the opposite
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Let me share with you a very common scenario when it comes to info about boys.
One of the more common questions asked from the girls side is whether the boy smokes. Boys who are smokers and want to start dating know this question comes up .so what many of these boys do is they stop smoking publicly, giving the impression that they quit. (But many boys never intended to quit at all and resume smoking after they are married.)Because his friends dont see him smoke anymore they no longer consider him a smoker. My question to u is if someone were to ask you about certain boy who who you know stopped smoking or only smokes iin private , how would you respond if you were asked about This boys whether he is a smoker? For all intents and purposes Lets
assume for a minute you are his chavrusa or close friend?