So yeshivas ohr yerushalayim (oj) could be an amazing fit. It used to have a terrible reputation for drugs but now its mamish cleaned up, new roshei yeshivas, different guys, and its a very lax place with incredible learning. Theyre very very strict on drugs but the guys the learning and ghe rebneim are all amazing. If u want u can contact me abt the yeshiva for more info. The rebbeim are mostly chareidi and you get lots of personal attention from them, theres no official hashkafa as people come from various backgrounds.
Bkitzur, amazing atmosphere for growth (bc were on a mountaintop outside of yerushalayim), amazing learning, and the ability to chill out and have a good time if need be.