@DaasYochid,
“Probably true, but again, why doesn’t the very expression revile her? There’s something very wrong going on if a mainstream shluchah can use that lashon.”
I certainly would never use such a loshon, and it does indeed scare me. I have heard people using strange l’shonos, and I’m not the only Lubavitcher bothered by them. But it’s innocence and naivete, not A”Z.