I do believe that due to the rise of social media it has become a method of “showing off” but aren’t a lot of chassunahs like that too(even before social media)? Who has a fancier hall, who has more guests etc.
But I do know a lot of people who would still rather prefer to have this done in private/not extravagant. I wouldn’t suggest that you generalize based on a few people on simcha spot.
Menu