Reply To: BT vs FFB

BTs are more intense about yiddishkeit then FFBs and there is no way I can think of to get them to recognize that people around them don’t act the same way. Most FFBs aren’t so shtark in everything and they pick which areas to be lenient on. A BT can’t understand such a thing because it’s all or nothing in their eyes. I’m not saying that a BT shldnt be makpid on some things for the sake of blending in but they need to understand that to be like everyone else in the community they need to BE like everyone in the community it they will feel like an outsider.