The situation in E.Y. is just as bad. Litvasher-Chasddisha? A litvashe girl wants a husband like her father-home on Shabbasim, close to his daughters as well as his sons, and also his wife. And so many other differences, which can’t be mentioned here. The girl will be very sad and lonely. Here in E.Y. we hardly see such “mixed” marriages. And there are so many older Chasidisher boys, it’s really too bad.
There are also thousands of Litvashe boys. All the comments made here may be true but they cannot account for the tragedy we are facing. What is the reason? How do we explain it?
It is a gezeira min haShamayin. Nothing more, nothing less. A horrible
gezeira.
So what are we supposed to do? First, try to make shidduchim. Think, maybe I do know somebody for him/her. Or ask your friends if they know someone
Second, DOVEN! We have to doven our hearts out for these boys and girls. Let’s beg H-shem to nullify the gezeira. Let’s stop blaming the singles and have rachmanus on them and their families.
V’H-shem yasmiainu v’hatzileinu.