@littliknow
-yes i know that money “shouldnt” make or break marriages but the sad reality today is that it does. Lets face it,girls today are programmed with the whole feminist,equal opportunity, equal rights, egalitarian,women empowerment, women in the work force, and all that stuff that has negatively impacted their thought process and expectations toward guys. It is a shame but it obviously affects many “frum” women who dwell in this. On one hand its hard to blame them since nowadays most of them have college degrees and “careers”, so they expect no less from the potential guy they will marry.
The reality though, is that not every guy fits their dreamy description of a perfect match. Some guys just “work” for a living through an honest job, make enough money to support and also aspire to get progress in life. Many girls dont understand that not everything will come wrapped up in a perfect bow and delivered to them on day one. If they truly believed what they write in their profiles regarding “I want someone so that we can grow together”, things would be different. But obviously they dont want to “grow together” , they want the finished product. And on top of all that, they want a full time learner, earner, and full time husband in the house. Go figure how that works?
Unfortunately the sad reality today has A LOT to do with money. Girls have a very narrow list of what jobs they are willing to accept. And they work as well so even more so it shouldnt be a problem. But hey, my money is mine, and your money is mine as well so go get a career!