Reply To: If Nassi is wrong, how do you explain why 1000’s of older girls are stil single?

From a SHADCHAN point of view:
From my own experience, a lot of so called OPEN MINDED MATURE GIRLS just go out dating for the sake of dating, they’re not serious about getting married, it’s just in style, then a year or 2 later it becomes tricky, since the serious girls found their BASHERTE, so these girls are left behind,
I’ve heard from the SKVER REBBE, that it would be a good idea for the boy’s and girls to get married as early & as young as possible, like this none of the 2 are yet matured, so they grow up together, each knows what the other wants, as opposed if they get married when they are both mature starts frictions, since both have a mind of their own,
It’s a SHITA to think about,