“What i am now writing is very controversial and not so accepted in our comunity.”
Its not controversial at all.
“Who asked the Chosson or kallah in Belz or Bobov or any other chassidus when they making chassuna if they like to have such a big Wedding when they stand on top on the Roof and thousands of people watching them.”
Gimpel Honigkvetcher is in charge of asking
“Just a thought. I dont want to hurt nobody. just thinking a little out of the box.”
I missed the out of the box part. All this has been said before.
You say “DONT SELL IT AS CHASSIDUS.”
An aspect of many chassidus is viewing the Rebbe as a “melech ” complete with the pomp and circumstance that surronds this. The pomp surronding a meelch is ver ymuch a part of our mesora. True it is hard for many of us to relate to. But this is very much part pf many chassidus, most notably Rizhin and its descendants but many others (though not all).
Thus a Rebbe’s family wedding is very much a royal wedding. (To his followers). As you may know a royal wedding is full of pomp and circumstance.
They arent forcing you to pay, they arent forcing you to come. DY might be on to something