The little I know and UncleSamSW,
Out of curiosity – aside from the large number of people attending (stadium seating) and the ornate tent (probably used/adapted from other functions), what exactly are the elements of these weddings that are getting you so worked up? CTLAWYER notes the absence of food, TLIK says there is food but it’s not fancy, and Neville ChaimBerlin notes the absence of gaudy displays.