I did not mean to be so curt earlier. When figuring out what type of person you want to marry, it is important to think about which things are preferences and what are your absolute necessities. If you know you absolutely must live in Israel and would turn down the perfect guy who has everything else except that, then so be it. Just make sure you clarify that with shadchanim or else you are wasting everybody’s time and effort. Some people think they want one thing but get someone different.
In the end you just need to make the best decision based on what you see and daven daven daven for help all along the way
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