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Philosopher: Please identify which, if any, of the following are from medieval Christian or Islamic religions:
Bereishis 3:16, Bereishis 18:12
Tehilim 45:11-12, which the Menoras Hame’or 2:176 says teaches us that a wife should not view her husband as an equal but rather as her master.
Shulchan Aruch, Y.D. 240:17, which explicitly states wives are subservient to their husband.
Ben Yehoyada, Menachos 43b, which says so as well.
Rambam, Hilchos Ishus 15:20, which states a wife must do all her deeds according to what her husband says, she should fear him and he should be in her eyes as a ruler or king.
אגרות משה אורח חיים חלק ד סימן עה
As far as listening, Bava Metzia 59a says a husband who listens to his wife on matters of religion/ruchniyos issues will end up in gehenom.