Its quite ironic that these boys who are complaining about girls who wont give a smoker a chance but will never consider a shidduch with out first going through dor yesharim. Hypocrisy at its best!
Yep, smoking and risking children with Tay-Sachs are totally equivalent.
(That was sarcastic, in case anyone couldn’t tell.)
(By the way, Happy, I think that Gemara’s talking about how women feel, not giving us advice.)