Laskern i was not referring to you. You were the counter example. I was referring to the chareidi community in general.
And you are right that it was not complimentary. It was intended as constructive criticism of the yeshivish community.
Sorry that I was unclear. My intent was to use you as a positive example. I took your well-written answer as an opportunity to reinforce good conduct. I guess I didn’t do it very well.