Chabadshlucha,
Let’s back up a little.
I would like to be clear of what we are talking about to get some common ground. Tell me if you agree or disagree:
Women are permitted to wear tsitsis as long as
(i) they are not intending it as a display of egalitarianism and (ii) they wear the tsitsis discreetly or make the garment in the form of feminine clothing
Let’s assume that no brocha is uttered.
Permitted or not?