Can you source that the Petur of Tashvu KeEin Taduru only applies when you can’t eat/drink/sleep?
You are totally missing my point. I’m not denying that there’s a p’tur of mitztaer, I’m saying:
1) There’s something wrong with a form of supposed avodas Hashem which leads to unnecessary tza’ar to patter from a mitzvah
2) Most people not sleeping in the sukkah aren’t actually having this tza’ar.
I don’t have a fully developed source which would specifically exclude psychological tza’ar from the din of mitztaer in sukkah, but neither do you have a source to include it.
Either way, that’s was never my argument, even if I grant it, my other arguments stand.