Sechel- I don’t know what to tell you. This is how it is where I live and I know it’s not just my neighborhood (I am not in New York area). Nobody here tells their kids to stay away from the Lubavitchers, they don’t have to, the Lubavitchers won’t play with us. I work with an organization that distributes food to many many Lubavitch families in the community and there are two Lubavitch couples who volunteer because, in their words, they know we service a lot of people in their community and they know that their community does not donate or support our non-Chabad organization, and they think it’s awful.[sidepoint- I have never understood why they are totally insular and self sufficient in terms of everything they do or need (schools, Shuls, bikur Cholim, social halls), but rely on the litvish communities for tomchei shabbos and tzeduka services]
Thank you for responding, tho my question still stands. Unless it’s not seen in other places…