CS, in case you’re still following this thread, and I believe that you are, I will attempt to explain clearly what Syag was (I believe) trying to convey, and what I meant by my comment.
You said that you’re sure “the rebbe didn’t approve” of your post. So Syag asked you what about HKB”H?
What (I believe) he meant was that what seems to concern you is only what your rebbe approves of, not what Hashem approves of.
So you answered that you believe that Hashem “would say the same because this is my derech. However if I was in a derech that stressed kanaus above all else for example, it could be Hashem would be fine with it”. In other words, other people may hold that Hashem wants something else, but your concern is what your rebbe holds that Hashem wants.
Theoretically that’s fine. Every shita is based on its understanding of what Hashem wants. But then you should have written something like “our rebbe taught us that Hashem doesn’t want us to speak that way”, not that this is what our rebbe wants.
This is the crux of the issue that went over your head. You have replaced Hashem with “the rebbe”.
Syag, did I get it right?