Trying to generalize about whether chassidishe or Litvishe marriages are more or less “successful”l, “happier”, or characterized by any other objective metric that can be reverse-engineered to derive a strategy for shadchannus seems a bit absurd. People are people and the individuals will ultimate determine marriage outcomes. Of course there are some obvious differences in minhagim and stylistic attributes but at the core, the choson/kalah are the key, not as someone said their lvush or whether they include va’yatzmach purkanei in kaddish.
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