Not sure what the real answer is but if you choose to live and work in any major urban area, by definition you will interact with and engage lots of ordinary people, both yidden and goyim, who don’t hold by our standards of tzinius. You will see them on the bus or subway, while driving to work, at the airport, in line at the bank or at the supermarket. Thats the real world. You simply need to learn not to focus on them and instead have some alternative visuals in you mind to use instead. If thats too difficult, move to a frum ghetto community and don’t venture out.
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