Bashert is not Halacha LeMaise. Proof; 1-) "Do a Shidduch on Tishe BeAv”. Why not wait 12 hours, if Bashert is Halacha LeMaise? 2-) Write a Tnoim on Chol Hamoed even though Kseiva is forbidden. Why not wait until after Yom Tov is Bashert is halacha LeMaiseh?
Tha Steipler held that if a Bachur does not listen to Shidduchim during the age of 18 to 20, he does not end up marrying his Bashert.
Since it is against Halacha for an American Bachur to delay Shidduchim after 20, please dont talk about Bashert. Its like robbing people and claiming that Parnosa is Bashert. Thats his Parnosa!
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