Philosopher: Not a joke. Issues like lack of sippuk or a teenager being rebellious towards parents. Sometimes marriage can reframe a person�s outlook, and the pressures on a young girl/Bochur are great if one doesn�t fit the mold, so I hear his point. However, even if likely true, it�s still a big risk to marry someone off without working on these issues first.
I�d have to find the song and listen to the whole thing to better explain it, but he�s a �Mashpia�, not some prankster.