We live in a real world where the large percentage of young men and women DO care about the “looks” of their prospective spouse and that is unlikely to change. We can pontificate about how “looks shouldn’t matter” and “its only whats inside the person that counts”. However, given that people do care, it makes sense to ask for a photo in advance of the first date rather than showing up and finding a date a foot taller/shorter or really obese or dressing in a matter that shows little respect for either oneself or the person you are meeting with.
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