BneiBarakObama, good point. And good for you for being married to a non-shrew!
Some questions:
1) Are you not married to a shrew because you “made sure not to” — or because it’s “your destiny… the divine plan”?
2) Would you think differently about accepting your marriage as “your destiny” if your wife was a shrew? If you had “made sure not to” marry a shrew, but she turned out to be one anyway? If she was worse than a shrew?
3) Does “bashertness” of a marriage today preclude divorce later on?