Joseph: Unless Reb Chaim is suffering from dementia (which itself is grounds for nullificaiton of a chassanah), if he doesn’t want to marry Shaindel, or Suralah, or Chanalah or whomever, no Beis Din will make him marry. You can fantasize or troll about the theoretical authority of a beis din, but in the real world, we don’t force a marriage on unwilling partners.
