Reply To: Setting up a MO girl with a serious Lakewood bochur = good idea or not?

wasntme – following “precedent”, I cited the chazal: pook chazi my ama dbar, go see what others are doing. That is why the halacha is that we make a brocha shehakol on water (and not Borei Nefoshos). Seeing what other Yidden are doing and following their precedent is accepted in Yiddishkeit.