Reply To: Setting up a MO girl with a serious Lakewood bochur = good idea or not?

I am not defending the MO women that might wear pants or not cover their hair.

I am not defending the Yeshivish crowd that might use a NYC eruv or use cholov akum or eat gebrokts.

I am not condoning or condemning anyone. That’s not the discussion (and it got dragged off topic).

My point is: Do these chumros/kulos/observances prevent a shiddusch between one that does and one that doesn’t?

If so, where do we draw the line and say: These difference are not “fatal” to the shidduch, but these are?

(Surely if one davens from a sfard siddur and the other uses an Ashkenaz siddur – the shidduch should not be nixed!)