Dear writer
I hear your frustration, but my point just flew over your head.
Did I ever say this?
“This is the problem with you guys, someone visits a lubavitcher or listens to a dvar Torah so you already turn them into leaving their own minhagim and seeing “the light” of chabad.”
You missed the point, I’m trying to bring out that if all these Gedolim/Rebbeim agreed, that chabad are koifrim, apikursim, Lev Tahor, then they wouldn’t attend these Chabad weddings, dance to chabad nigunim, or meet with Lubavitcher chassidim.
From the fact that they do attend, it seems that they don’t agree with these comments.
No one is claiming that they should change or changed their minhagim.
The Rebbe never told people to change thier minhagim, in fact, there is lots of Lubavitchers that wear a shtrimul and lingeh rekul, some wore personally told by the Rebb how to change.
Rather the Rebbe encourage them to learn chassidus.
Sorry if you missed my point, I hope you do now.
Have a great shabbos.