This idea has 2 pros, 1 con that I can see. Pro #1 is people can find Shidduchim themselves, instead of only other people finding it for them, increasing potential Shidduchim, because there are more people looking out for potential matches. Pro #2 is boys don’t know how to act around girls, and girls don’t know how to act around boys. There is no way for to know how to act with the other because for the most part they never had any contact with the opposite gender. That’s not a bad thing, but in this case it is a big block to get around. Limited hanging out could help them get around that block. The con is boys will be boys, girls will be girls mixing them together can have obvious results, but with proper planning I think it could work.
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