I am assuming that Avreimi’s auto spell changed the word “psak” to “park”.
I too have been left bitterly disappointed after similar situations in the past. But I have learned to believe in Emunas Chachomim.
The Rabbonim have a responsibility to Klal Yisroel as whole, now and for the future. And they therefore view the situation in a much bigger context.
I don’t have to understand “why”. But when I keep an open mind I always come to see that they have a much clearer and longsighted understanding than what I expected.