Reply To: Does a convert adopted by frum parents have a bashert?

Just listened to a shiur…. The rabbi in this shiur said that converts absolutely do not have a soulmate matched to them at birth. The rabbi said that instead, the convert’s match is selected from a pool of candidates that consists of divorcees, older singles that missed their basherts due to vanity, and other outliers. From this pool of currently unmarried candidates, Hashem selects the match that best compliments the convert.

…I don’t know whether this rabbi’s explanation is universally accepted.