Reply To: Learning From the Recent Drowning Tragedies

I don’t know if when things like this happen comments on here should perhaps be limited to “bde” and some nice comments about the niftAr at least for a few days
I imagine relatives of people who have tragedies happen come to ywn; I doubt they want to read that it was chenek or that it was because they were not smart enough when doing what ever they were doing.
I know no one said anything that meant that , but we have to be very sensitive.
Yes it is all has some truth : we shouldn’t hold cellphones while driving , G-d does decide and we do have to do tshuva ( I do seriously doubt that a commentator could possibly know what the tshuva we all need to do is for )
I think whatever can be gained from a comment can be lost if a person who is suffering a lost feels judged by us.
I remember someone commited suicide and the relatives had to read online all sort of silly coments about why etc