Reply To: Important shidduch questions during hannukah! Home › Forums › Yom Tov › Chanukah › Important shidduch questions during hannukah! › Reply To: Important shidduch questions during hannukah! December 1, 2019 1:37 pm at 1:37 pm #1806241 iacisrmmaParticipant In my family, the women lit. My wife’s family they didn’t. The question never came up,