I am divorced and BH happily remarried.
I have counseled many people in these matters.
But, and this might sound harsh, I wouldn’t offer you advice.
Divorce is always a tragedy. But to compound the problem by making it “contested” is evil.
Now I might be mistaken and the conflict may be from your wife and you have no control over that. If that is the case then I apologize. However if you are planning to fight I would remind you that though it is permitted to give your wife a get , machlokes is assur. And the damage it does to the kids is unconscionable.
I would strongly advise divorce mediation.
Fighting over money will result in money from which you will see no mazel.
I didn’t fight, and neither did my current wife with her ex, and we have both seen much bracha and Mazel together.
Good luck.
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