I want to thank everyone for telling me I’m a terrible person who’s chayiv misa. (I’m 23 and started shidduchim a month ago)
Now lets move on in life.
But I do have a couple of solutions 🙂
father’s should be mekadesh their daughters as ketanos,
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Mattier pelegesh,
Shut down Mir EY, Brisk, Yagdil, Rav Tzvi Kaplan,
Allow multiple wives,
Have coed schools,
Start shidduch yomi, after you do the daf you go on a date, than we can have 1 big chasuna in each country in the world.
Or…
Have emunah in hashem, and believe that the rabonim that created the ways of America weren’t idiots and apikorsim, they knew every chazal and posek that you can think of (plus more) and yet they did it this way.