Okay, I’m calling troll post. Starting at the claim that a modern orthodox family would agree to support you in learning “for a few months” and moving onward to the “this includes girls taller than 5’7″ ”
On the chance I am wrong – I think CA answered well and I will add to it. It is very difficult. Problems spring up all the time and it is not an easy situation. I think it would be wrong not to consider a boy from a more modern home or a baal tshuva if he is the right one, but your blow off attitude about potential problems is totally wrong.
1 – that is just a dumb response. sorry, rude response. and it isn’t even an answer. does a girl using the money she works to earn imply she would rather be alone because she isn’t rotting on a chair by a window?