PGY: See Orech Chayim Siman TAF REISH TZADI SIf Yud ZAyin (Ramah for the origin of the minhag and how he says it should not be mevatel and one shouldnt complain about it)
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=49628&st=&pgnum=310
PGY: See Orech Chayim Siman TAF REISH TZADI SIf Yud ZAyin (Ramah for the origin of the minhag and how he says it should not be mevatel and one shouldnt complain about it)
https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=49628&st=&pgnum=310