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Because people are so very picky.
What is wrong with a baal teshuva for example?
Or someone from a divorced home?
Someone who is “quiet” or “not so skinny”?
Or someone who is from a family that doesn’t have money?
Since when is Shidduchim a shopping spree??
Does he have to be Smart, AND A Long Term Learner, AND Tall, AND went to Israel??
She has to be pretty, and not tall, and her father has money but is also in klei kodesh?
What kind of nonsense is this.
Each person needs to look at himself and ask “Am I causing the crisis?”
No, its not HKBH who caused the crisis. We, with our long lists, caused the crisis.