Reply To: Shidduch Crisis ONGOING

The crisis is ongoing because both sides won’t give in.
Meaning, I believe that boys at 21 are not mature enough for marriage or able to support a family. However the other side believes that they are.
There’s no rational discussion about “how can we change the boys chinuch system to make them mature or able to support a family.” Rather the response is “at 21 a boy is ready,” no if and or buts about it.
When the boys side says “let girls start later,” the response to that is **!?;’*: THE NERVE TO TELL GIRLS, WHO ALREADY HAVE A HARD TIME, TO START LATER.
Without both of either sides giving in, nothing will change. The boys will continue to be massive reshoim, and the girls will still be single.