Reply To: The shidduch process; chassidish & litvish , its working & yet

the world-chassidish and litvish go much harder on bochurim
when you red a girl you dont speak about how she acts in school, and what her IQ is (obviously you speak about the minimal, but…) as long as she can cook, she’s healthy physically and emotionally- thats what matters.
by a bochur- the whole thing is his learning his learning his learning- which at the end of the day, by many that isnt whats gonna be whats going to help him after his chasuna