efshar azoi>> When was the last time your teen came home and told you a yesod they learned from these 2 subjects?
yes, this is the main point and it bothered me for years, despite all prodding.
School was obviously affecting girls in many positive ways, but at best they could do at home was criticize my wife’s “kulos”. After they stopped going to school, we now have long-winded discussions about Parsha with heated arguments. They are using what they learnt at school as a base, of course, to be fair.