What I don’t understand is, are you planning a marriage or a Bar Mitzvah? Certainly, I’d think it’s appropriate and acceptable for the Chosson and Kallah to make the plans regarding hotel/no hotel, finding an apartment, which shul/yeshiva to belong with, among other facets which mark the beginning of marking their independent stamp in life. I’m not familiar with parents fully planning the wedding night hotel reservations or the honeymoon. Let them live life 120+
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