Sam,
This is my comment from above
“And who says I don’t? I’m assuming you do (and countless gedolim throughout the ages)
So the reason must be that we don’t know what’s good for us or not (only Hashem knows what’s ultimately good and it seems like we still have stuff to fix up“
So your comment of
“If we really cried out for the Bais Hamikdosh from our heart with truth & show that we are missing it, then we wouldn’t still be in Golus today.“
Still didn’t address it (and no one else did because I’m directing it at you since you’re the one saying it