As much as they come prepared, there’s always the Mesorah and attitude that cannot be “taught” in school. And that, exactly that is what the night of Seder is made for. Give it over “as if you went out of Egypt”. It’s the manner, the excitement, the attitude that’s always going to stay with the child, years after all the peshatim are forgotten.
Take the opportunity, grab as much as you can on this special night. One can relate to a child of any level … the four sons.
And if I may add – the fifth one too, the one who does not come to the Seder at all. To him we say the Ha Lachma.. come and join.. no questions asked. Just come and join our party.. great food, you’ll enjoy it. And we don’t try to shove anything else at him…