I did not see the shaila in א’מ above of being invited and standing out by showing that he is better than the host. We show respect to the host. I did not paint with a broad brush as I excluded kitniyos being an issur from the geonim and not a recent chumra. Kitniyos is also assur on the last day of pesach whereas gebrochts is mutar. The shaila is whether to follow the host or stick by your own chumros which I did not see resolved. Obviously, we don’t break minhagim for no reason.
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