common, you got so stuck on me not asking the Rav. I even gave you examples but that did not help you. Call AAA. Interestingly, in a number of cases, I get an explicit opinion rather than psak. Is it experience of others also.
For a fun shaila: a friend of mine dragged his pre-bar-mitzva son to a posek in Mattesdorf to resolve the problem of son not joining the father going to shul for mincha and continuing playing soccer with friends. The posek asked the kid – how long does it take to say mincha? do you think you could get off the field, say mincha and continue playing? The look on father’s face was precious. He eventually moved to a place where everyone goes to mincha and does not play soccer.