Dear Always,
That is my point. It is weird that young people look for guidance for issues that are natural for adults, but are on their own when it comes to reaching adulthood. Seems backward, contradictory, and plain old stupid to me. I’m aware of the reasons that you indicated. Still, it leaves us with odd dilemmas, [Such as which outsider should give personal direction, on a matter which is at the discretion of the practitioner.] that should not really come to be in the first place.